Thursday, June 30, 2011

Friends or Strangers?

At a point in life, you'll realize how different people can be in a blink of an eye. It takes years to build something, out of nothing. All the hard work, effort and most importantly TRUST. You put in so much, hoping it will never disappoint you. Little did I know, it takes a split second to destroy all of that. I've had so many people walk in and out of my life. I've even had friends who were there through every obstacles that I've been though and at the end of the day, we are back to square one of being strangers again. I've regretted some of the decisions I've made over the years and some, I knew it was just the right thing to do.

Remember my last post here? When I say that I am ready to move on and make a change in life, I meant it. What I can say is sometimes, people tend to get ticked off when they see someone else happy. They think they get the pleasure out of destroying other people's life. All the time and effort they take in to bring you down, would somewhat be better if it's been put into making things better. I'm amazed really. Even when you leave them alone and respect them enough to let them lead their life, they will somehow try to find a way to get into your way and bring you down. What I honestly believe from this whole experience is to let them do what they want and stay ignorant. There's no sweeter revenge than letting others see you live your life the right way and be happy.

Ever heard of the saying, "when you decide to argue with a fool, all of a sudden there are two fools in the room instead of one". How true.

So if you ask me now, if I do have a best friend then I'd have to honestly say NO. I have friends whom I can trust enough to know that they will never disappoint me, who are mature enough to deal with issues and who are clever enough not to bring me or others down.

It's sad when people you know become people you knew and how you can just walk past them like they were never a part of your life. In my case, I can barely look at this person now. People like this are always a wake up call to me. It makes you start wondering who those friends are and who just stood by you for a reason. It's high time we all start discovering who's true to you and start eliminating those are just a waste of our precious time.

Best decision I've made yet as of today was to walk away from all this drama. I'm getting old lah, I should just start focusing on my life now. There's so much more to life than to deal with this b.s.

I officially call it quits. So stop bugging my life anymore.

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