Impact.

I spoke to my BFF recently about latest happenings. Death, friendship, career and relationships. How a certain incident can easily open up our eyes and making us realize life in a bigger perspective.

There was something that she said, that instantly changed my mind. She said, "Sometimes, we meet people who were only there during the fun times. But will they be there for us when we need them? What happens when things go wrong? Will they be there to hold you? Comfort you? Fix things with you?". And it got me thinking. I won't deny the fact that some of us, are obviously from different worlds. It just doesn't give, our lifestyles, no matter how hard we try. Some things are just, not meant to be. Then she said, "You did your best. That's all you could have done for your side. You were the better person because we put in effort. That's like an extra mile already!". What do I have to lose now? Nothing. Nothing at all.

It's true, what she said. By far one of my wisest best friends that I can always count on. And true enough, some people were just temporarily there during the "fun" times. If there's no other way even after you've gone all out, just walk away. If the other party cares enough to make things better, they will come to you.

And all I can say, these past events have definitely helped me grow. It feels better when you least expect anything. You don't get hurt, you don't get sad and you've got absolutely NO worries. It is definitely easier said than done but if you try, you'll get there. Trust me. ;)